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The Assumption of Goodwill

When I first introduced the term Assumption of Goodwill long ago, I had a clear vision of what I meant—and what I didn’t mean—by using or teaching this skill. I needed to define a process that I could use to teach how to counteract negative bias.
August 17, 2025
August 18, 2025
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Desperation is NOT Attractive

In the beginning of a relationship, intensity and focus are easy because of physical attraction. But over time, one partner can become more invested in the relationship than the other. What should you NOT do?
May 4, 2025
August 13, 2025
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RAGE: How to respond safely

Incidences of rage are becoming more common. Before responding to rage, consider: How vulnerable is your current position? And are you in danger?
January 16, 2022
August 7, 2025